APPENDIX A


Questionnaire Used

in Five-School Student Sample

General Introduction

You have been chosen at random to help make up the sample of this study. Your personal identity cannot be made known to anyone. Once your questionnaire has been returned to the research staff, there is no possible way in which any of the information involved can be traced to any individual subject. With this guarantee that your answers can be treated only as objects of data, we urge you to consider each of the questions carefully and with complete honesty. You can be of the greatest help in this project if you are as truthful as possible. Please do not exaggerate your answers. Take your time and answer all questions to the best of your knowledge. Thank you.


Part I General Information

1. (a) Class in school (please check)
(1) Freshman-
(2) Sophomore
(3) Junior
(4) Senior-
(b) Number of semesters in school including this one.

2. Sex: male- female

3. Date of birth.
(day) (mo.) (year)

4. (a) What do your parents consider to be their home state? Mother's home state - Father's home state
(b) In what states did you spend the last fifteen years of your life and how long in each?
(c) Approximate size of city where you have spent most of your life

        (1) Less than 1000      (5) 50,000-100,000
        (2) 1000-10,000         (6) 100,000-500,000
        (3) 10,000-25,000       (7) 500,000-1,000,000
        (4) 25,000-50,000       (8) Over 1,000,000
(d) Would you consider most of your residence as urban or rural -?

5. (a) What is your religion? (please name specific denomination)
(b) How often do you attend church?
(1) More than once a week - (4) Once a month
(2) Once a week (5) Seldom
(3) Once every two weeks - (6) Never
(c) Do you classify yourself as devout -, moderately devout - ,or inactive -?
(d) Is your parents' religion the same as yours? Yes- No
(e) Are both parents of the same - or different - religions? If different, what are they?

6. (a) Are your parents
(1) living together? (3) divorced?
(2) separated? (4) missing?
(b) Are you living with your parents? Yes- No-If you are living with your parents, do you live with them
(1) during the school year? (2) during summer and vacations? (3) all year?

(c)If you are not living with your parents, indicate with whom:
(1) Guardian
(2) Relative (please specify)
(3) Other (please specify) -

7. (a) Father living? Yes- No
(b) Occupation of father or male guardian with whom you have lived the longest (be specific)
(c) Father or male guardian's education (be specific as to when he stopped his schooling; for example, 8th grade, 12th grade, 2d year in college, and so on)

8. (a) Mother living? Yes- No
(b) Occupation of mother or female guardian with whom you have lived the longest
(c) Mother or female guardian's education (be specific as to when she stopped her schooling; for example, 8th grade, 12th grade, 2d year in college, and so on)

9. What do you estimate your family income to be per year?

(1) Below $2000 (5) $7500-$10,000
(2) $2000-$3500 (6) $10,000-$15,000
(3) $3500-$5000 (7) Over $15,000
(4) $5000-$7500

10. (a) Number of brothers - Their ages
(b) Number of sisters - Their ages

11. (For high-school students only)
(a) Are you planning to go to college? Yes- No
(b) If No, is it that you want to, but cannot. Explain any part of this answer which you feel it is necessary to explain.

12. (For college students only)
When did you decide to go to college?
(1) Before junior year in high school
(2) Junior year in high school
(3) Senior year in high school
(4) After senior year in high school

13. (a) You are engaged to be married. How far do you believe it is proper to go sexually?
(1) Kissing
(2) Petting
(3) Full sexual relations
(b) How far do you believe it is proper for your partner to go?
(1) Kissing
(2) Petting
(3) Full sexual relations

Part II

Instructions: Please keep in mind that we are not interested in your behavior or in your acceptance of other people's behavior, but in the values and standards which you personally hold.
After each question you will find six choices. First decide whether you agree or disagree with the view expressed. Then circle the degree of your agreement or disagreement with the views expressed in the situations described below. Do not feel that you have to check the same degree of agreement or disagreement for both parties involved in each situation, since it may happen that what you feel is acceptable for one person you may not feel is acceptable for the other in that situation. Thus, you may check them the same way or differently.
In order to be clear about the usage of certain terms we will define them as follows:
Petting: Sexually stimulating behavior more intimate than kissing and simple hugging but not including full sexual relations (to be used this way throughout the questionnaire).
Strong affection: Affection which is stronger than physical attraction or average fondness or "liking," but less strong than the emotional state which you would call love.
Love: The emotional state which is more intense than strong affection and which you would define as love.
WE REALIZE THAT MANY OF YOU ARE TOLERANT TOWARD WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO OR BELIEVE. IN THIS SECTION, HOWEVER, WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN WHETHER OR NOT YOU TOLERATE OTHER PEOPLES' ACTIONS AND BELIEFS. PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS ON THE BASIS OF HOW YOU FEEL TOWARD THE VIEWS EXPRESSED.

1.John and Mary are engaged to be married. They kiss, since both feel that kissing is allowable when the couple is engaged.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

2. John and Mary are in love. They kiss, since both feel that kissing is allowable when the couple is in love.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

3. John and Mary have strong affection for each other. They kiss, since both feel that kissing is -acceptable when the couple has strong affection.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

4. John and Mary have no particular affection for each other. They kiss, since both believe that kissing does not necessitate any particular affection between the couple.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

5. John and Mary are engaged to be married. They pet, since both believe that petting is acceptable when the couple is engaged to be married.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

6. John and Mary are in love. They engage in petting, since both believe that petting is acceptable when the couple is in love.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

7. John and Mary have strong affection for each other. They engage in petting, since both believe that petting is acceptable when the couple is strongly affectionate.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

8. John and Mary have no particular affection for each other. They engage in petting, since both feel that petting does not require any particular affection between the couple.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

9. John and Mary are engaged to be married. They have full sexual relations, since they both feel that full sexual relations is acceptable when the couple is engaged to be married.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

10. John and Mary are in love. They engage in full sexual relations, since they both feel that full sexual relations is acceptable when the couple is in love.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

11. John and Mary feel strong affection for each other. They engage in full sexual relations, since they both think that full sexual relations is acceptable when the couple is strongly affectionate.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

12. John and Mary have no particular affection for each other. They engage in full sexual relations, since they both feel that having full sexual relations does not require any particular affection between the couple.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

13. John and Mary believe that full sexual relations done predominantly for sexual pleasure is just about as good as full sexual relations engaged in for the sake of love or similar emotional feelings.
(a) How do you feel about John's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) How do you feel about Mary's views in this situation?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

14. I believe that there is something basically nasty and dirty about most sex before marriage.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

15. (a) Men should be allowed more freedom than women in sexual behavior before marriage. How do you feel about this attitude?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) If you agreed with the above statement, did you do so because you feel that it is morally right or because you feel that this is the way the world is and it's too difficult to change?

16. (a) Men and women should be allowed to participate equally in sex in accordance with the same standard. How do you feel about this attitude?
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) If you disagreed with this statement, was it because you feel it is morally wrong or because you feel it is too difficult to change the way the world is?

Part III

Instructions: Please circle the degree of agreement or disagreement you have with the statements below. The first list contains statements concerning the male; the second contains statements concerning the female. Please read each one carefully and check your degree of agreement or disagreement with each statement in both lists. Remember, WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR TOLERANCE OF OTHER PEOPLE'S BEHAVIOR OR BELIEFS. PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS, AS BEFORE, ON THE BASIS OF HOW YOU FEEL TOWARD THE VIEWS EXPRESSED.

Male Standards (Both Men and Women Check This Section)

1. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the male before marriage if he is engaged to be married.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

2. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

3. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the male before marriage when he feels strong affection for his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

4. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is not particularly affectionate toward his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

5. I believe that petting is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is engaged to be married.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

6. I believe that petting is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

7. I believe that petting is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is strongly affectionate for his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

8. I believe that petting is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is not particularly affectionate toward his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (I ) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

9. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is engaged to be married.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

10. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

11. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the male before marriage when be is strongly affectionate toward his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

12. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the male before marriage when he is not particularly affectionate for his partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (t) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

13. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the male before marriage when there is no particular affection and that this type of relationship is just about as acceptable as full sexual relations which involve strong affection or love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

Female Standards (Both Men and Women Check This Section)

1. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is engaged to be married.
Agree: (I) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

2. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

3. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the female before marriage when she feels strong affection for her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

4. I believe that kissing is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is not particularly affectionate toward her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

5. I believe that petting is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is engaged to be married.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

6. I believe that petting is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

7. I believe that petting is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is strongly affectionate for her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

8. I believe that petting is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is not particularly affectionate toward her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

9. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is engaged to be married.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

10. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is in love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

11. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is strongly affectionate for her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

12. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the female before marriage when she is not particularly affectionate for her partner.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

13. I believe that full sexual relations is acceptable for the female before marriage when there is no particular affection and that this type of relationship is just about as acceptable as full sexual relations which involve strong affection or love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

After you have completed the questions above, place an X beside the one statement in the mate list and the one statement in the female list which you feel most nearly expresses how far you feel the male should go and how far you feel the female should go.


Part IV

1. (a) Explain briefly in the space provided below your reasons for choosing the two statements beside which you placed an X above. Why do you think they were good?

(b) Briefly state your reasons against those statements for both male and female which you rejected above. Why do you think they were not good?

2. (a) How do you feel your standards compare with those of your parents?
MOTHER FATHER

(1) Very similar                (1) Very similar
(2) Similar                     (2) Similar
(3) Somewhat similar -          (3) Somewhat similar
(4) Somewhat dissimilar         (4) Somewhat dissimilar
(5) Dissimilar                  (5) Dissimilar
(6) Very dissimilar             (6) Very dissimilar

(b) If at all dissimilar, do you feel your standards are more - or less - strict than those of your parents?

3. (a) How do you feel your standards compare with those standards of others your own age?

(1) Very similar                (4) Somewhat dissimilar
(2) Similar                     (5) Dissimilar
(3) Somewhat similar            (6) Very dissimilar

(b) If at all dissimilar, are your standards more - or less - strict than those of others your own age?

4. (a) How do you feel your standards compare with those standards of your very close friends?

(1) Very similar                (4) Somewhat dissimilar
(2) Similar                     (5) Dissimilar
(3) Somewhat similar            (6) Very dissimilar

(b) If at all dissimilar, are your standards more - or less - strict than those of your very close friends?


Part V

1. Are you at present (1) unattached -, (2) going fairly regularly with one person -, (3) going steady -,(4) in love -,(5) pinned (for college students only) -,(6) engaged -, (7) other -?

2. Counting the relationship (if any) marked above, have you gone fairly regularly with one person short of going steady ?

(a) Number of times
(b) Duration (in months) of each
(c) Ages at occurrence

3. Counting the relationship marked above, have you gone steady?
(a) Number of times -
(b) Duration in months of each
(c) Ages at occurrence

4. Counting the above-marked relationship, have you been pinned?
(a) Number of times
(b) Duration in months of each
(c) Ages at occurrence

5. Counting the above-marked relationship, have you been engaged?
(a) Number of times -
(b) Duration in months of each
(c) Ages at occurrence

6. Have you been in love?
(a) Number of times
(b) Duration in months of each
(c) Ages at occurrence

7. On the average, how many times per month do you date?

8. At what age did you begin dating?
(b) At what age did you begin single dating?
(c) At what age did you begin dating regularly, short of going steady?
(d) At what age did you begin dating in cars?
(e) Would you say that most of your dating activities were restricted to
(1) "playing the field" -, (2) dating particular individuals fairly regularly -, or (3) about half and half


Part VI

Please circle the degree of agreement or disagreement you have with the following statements concerning love relationships between men and women.

1. True love leads to almost perfect happiness.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

2. There is only one real love for a person.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

3. True love is known at once by the people involved.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

4. Even though one's past love affair was not as strong as the present one, it may still have been a real love relationship.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

5. Doubt may enter into real love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

6. True love is mysterious and cannot be understood by reason. It can only be felt, not explained.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

7. True love will last forever.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

8. Conflict can be a part of real love.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

9. It is possible to love two people at the same time.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

10. When one is in love, the person whom he loves becomes the only goal in his life. One lives almost solely for the other.
Agree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
Disagree: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight

Part VII

1. Which phrase below best characterizes most of your relations with your family?
(1) Very happy (4) Somewhat dissatisfactory
(2) Happy (5) Unhappy
(3) Somewhat satisfactory - (6) Very unhappy

2. Would you say that most of the time you are closer to your mother or your father

3. Do you feel for the most part that your life goals are being achieved - or not being achieved - ?

4. Do you find that there are sufficient pastimes and types of entertainment for your use - or that it is difficult to find things to do -?

5. Do you think that your standards regarding sex before marriage
(1) are very likely to change in the future?
(2) are somewhat likely to change in the future?
(3) are slightly likely to change in the future?
(4) are slightly unlikely to change in the future?
(5) are somewhat unlikely to change in the future?
(6) are very unlikely to change in the future?

6. (a) Have your attitudes toward sexual behavior changed since you have begun dating? Yes- No -
(b) If yes, have they become more strict - or less strict - ?
(c) Please explain how many times they have changed and at what ages.

7. (a) I believe that my sexual behavior and the sexual standards in which I believe are
in agreement with each other: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
in disagreement with each other: (1) Strong, (2) Medium, (3) Slight
(b) Please explain your answer if your sexual behavior differs from your sexual standards.

8. (a) For an engaged woman it is proper to allow (1) Kissing (2) Petting (3) Full sexual relations
(b) For an engaged man it is proper to allow (1) Kissing (2) Petting (3) Full sexual relations

9. Summarize your feelings toward your past serious relationships as a whole. Do you feel that they have been helpful or harmful in the formation of your present attitudes?

10. Do you think your standards should apply to others? Yes - No - Explain -

11. Would you define petting to include only certain types of sexual behavior and not others? Yes- No- If Yes, explain.

12. Any additional comments you have which might further explain your attitudes may be listed below.

(For the New York college the following questions were added)

13. How many semesters have you been at this school?

14. (a) Have your sexual standards changed since you came here? -
If Yes, are they more or less strict now? -

(b) Has your sexual behavior changed since you have been here?
If Yes, is it more or less strict now? -